So I wound up going to Berts on King George. Was in there today to have them take a look. What they told me was the complete opposite to what the other shops had told me.
Bert's said that some of the sensors was going wacky and affecting the transfer case, (which is why the 4x4 isn't working right now), which was affecting the shift points of the tranny. It doesn't look mechanical at all, and I don't at this point need a new Trans. So I am booked with them for next monday for them to dig in and see where the sensor problem is coming from.
The thing that chaffs me about all of this is, 2 transmission shops, one of which only took the Explorer for about a 3 min drive
(Blackwell industries Ltd), and the other one
(Budget Transmission) actually hooked it up and read out a diagnostics said that The tranny was blown and that I needed a new one. Budget, on 104th ave in Surrey, lied right to my face when they said the no problems read up at all, meanwhile Bert's read up a ton of problems. The deal with that is, if the computer reads problems, then you more than like have sensor issues which are MUCH CHEAPER to fix. No Problems read up, more than likely mechanical, as in you need a trans.
I am not very impressed with either of the 2 previuosly mentioned shops.