I can see that many people probably have a hard time with the idea of honoring the German dead. I thought about it myself and that's why I made a point of visiting the German cemetery. 99% of those soldiers were just scared young men that were trying to stay alive. They had to kill the enemy before he killed them. I'm quite sure that they fought with as much valor as many allied soldiers. In my mind they deserve remembrance as well. The regime and some of its high ranking officers on the other hand.....
Young men, and older men. As the war dragged on, many at either end of the spectrum were pressed into service. At the German war cemetery at LaCambe we saw several graves of boys in their late teens. At the other cemetery in the south of Normandy we saw crypts of soldiers who were in the their 40’s or 50’s. Not many folks know that some of the soldiers that manned the defenses of the Atlantic Wall to repel an invasion were not German at all. Many were prisoners (Polish, Russian) pressed into service at gunpoint. They were members of Ost Battalions. Their only options: survival, being killed by the attacking Allies or being killed by the German officer overseeing their unit.
Don’t necessarily agree with all of your statement. What you say is generally true of the German Army, the Wermacht. Typically these soldiers were not hard core Nazis and were fighting for their country, family and honour, not an ideology. However the Waffen SS were fanatical and brutal. During the fighting near Juno Beach the SS executed more than 60 Canadian wounded and prisoners. In the town of Authie there is a street named “Place des 37 Canadiens” honouring the 37 Canadians murdered by the 12th SS on June 7. The 12th SS Panzer Divison was a Hitlerjugend (Hitler Youth) unit.
The Canadians faced two SS Panzer Divisions in the Juno Beach sector. Other sectors had tanks, but not as many, and not SS. Montgomery’s strategy was for the Canadian’s to engage and hold the panzers so that the American’s further west at Omaha and Utah beaches could break out of the beachhead and hook around. The Canadian Shermans were no match for the German Panthers and Tigers and the Candians were severely bloodied, but they did their job.
I can recommend Mark Zuehlke’s two books “Juno” and “Holding Juno”. Zuehlke is a Victoria writer and is Canada’s pre-eminent military historian. Both books are fascinating reads.